Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take,
but by the moments that take your breath away.

Sunday, November 2, 2008

5 months together

Today marks 5 months since Michael and I walked into the Klintsy baby home in Russia to bring Aaden home. What big changes have the last month brought? The biggest one is "the whine". Yes, along with all the wonderful aspects of attachment going really well these last 2 months, Aaden has figured out how to whine. And how to fake tears when mommy leaves the room to really make her feel guilty. I left Aaden with our sitter for a quick appoinment I had and he screamed/cried horribly when I left. I almost didn't leave I felt so bad. I'm not even at the end of my street and I call because I'm honestly thinking of turning back around I feel so bad for my little guy. The sitter answers with no screaming in the background. How is he I ask? She said as soon I was out of eyesight he shut off the tears and began to play with her. Hmmm... is he that smart already? I think I have my work cut out for me. On the happy side, it's so nice that he now comes to me for everything and understands I'm his mom. When I do come back if I've been gone, he screams with excitement and comes running for me to pick him up and kiss him. That is priceless and melts my heart every time.

Here are some recent pictures of Aaden including Halloween. He didn't really get the concept and spend most of the time "whining" because he wanted to run into the street and didn't understand why he had to hold our hands. But he had a great time at home watching all the kids come to our house dressed up.



















4 comments:

Our Family said...

Lori,

I loved reading about Aaden's attachment progress, though I'm sure it breaks your heart when he pulls out the tears when you leave!

What a cute lion!
Adrian

Scott & Tammi said...

Wow 5 months already!! I loved seeing the little lion pictures. Also, it is so nice reading examples of what I might be in for at some point.
Tammi

Christine and Stephen said...

Lori:

What a great feeling it must be when he see you and "screams" because he knows your his mom and he's happy to see you!!! I'm sure the "whine" is difficult but yet reassuring because he's just like every other kid...it sounds like he's adjusting so well.

I love the lion face -- CUTIE!!

Christine

JackieMacD said...

WOW - 5 months. Aaden is such an incredible kid -- the tears are hard but he's totally attached to his mama. I know the ups and downs of the first months and I'm so happy you've gotten to such amazing milestones. Hope to see you guys all again soon.